5 October 2026
Is tutoring making a difference? Five things parents should look for

When families invest time and money in tutoring, they understandably want to know whether it is making a difference. Is your child building useful skills, or simply getting through another lesson? School marks can help answer that question, but they rarely tell the whole story. A clearer picture comes from looking at what your child understands, how independently they work and what their tutor can explain about their progress.
There is growing interest in transparency about tutoring outcomes. For example, The Profs has published three years of student outcomes. Its current methodology states that the figures are based on internal client feedback surveys and have not been independently audited. Those results do not describe Kip McGrath Darlington’s students or guarantee what tutoring will achieve for your child. For families, the practical question remains: what evidence of progress should you look for?
A clear understanding of your child’s starting point
A useful initial assessment looks beyond the topic that is causing difficulty today. A child struggling with fractions may need to revisit multiplication or the idea of equal parts. A child finding comprehension difficult may need support with vocabulary, rather than simply more practice answering questions. Identifying earlier gaps helps support focus on the right need.
The starting point should include strengths as well as difficulties. Knowing what your child can already do provides a baseline against which later work can be compared. Ask what the assessment revealed and which foundations need attention first. A general description such as “behind in maths” is less useful than an explanation of the skills that need strengthening.
Specific goals, rather than vague promises
“Improve in English” is an understandable ambition, but it is not a clear learning goal. More useful examples include understanding equivalent fractions, using full stops consistently or answering comprehension questions with evidence from the text. Specific goals make it easier for parents, tutors and children to recognise what has changed.
The priorities should reflect the individual child, not a fixed programme everyone completes at the same pace. As skills become secure, goals should develop too. Ask why the current target matters and how the tutor will know when your child is ready for the next step. Clear goals offer direction without promising a particular grade or deadline.
Progress your child can demonstrate
Look for changes your child can show: completing questions they previously found difficult, making fewer repeated errors or explaining why a method works. Applying a skill to an unfamiliar question is especially useful evidence, because it suggests understanding rather than remembering the layout of a familiar exercise.
Finishing a worksheet is not the same as learning its content. Nor does getting homework right with an adult’s help necessarily show that a child could tackle similar work independently. It can help to compare earlier and later examples of the same skill and ask how much prompting was needed. Small, consistent changes may be more informative than one unusually high mark.
Growing confidence and independence
Progress can also appear in how your child approaches learning. They may become more willing to attempt a question, ask for clarification or persevere after an error. A child who once waited for every instruction might begin choosing a method or checking an answer without being reminded.
These changes matter, particularly when previous difficulties have made learning feel intimidating. However, confidence alone is not proof of academic improvement. Look for it alongside evidence of stronger skills. Ideally, your child feels more capable because they can increasingly do something they previously could not, rather than because the work has simply become easier.
Clear, regular feedback
Parents should be able to understand what their child is working on, what has improved and what still needs attention. Useful feedback connects a learning goal with an example, rather than relying only on comments such as “a good session”. It should also make clear whether a skill is secure or still needs practice.
Two helpful questions are: “What can they do now that they couldn’t do before?” and “What is the next learning goal?” You can also ask what level of help your child needs and whether there is appropriate practice to support learning between sessions. If progress is slower than expected, a clear conversation about possible reasons is more useful than reassurance without evidence.
Progress looks different for every child
Progress depends on the starting point, learning needs, attendance and practice. There is no honest universal promise about grade improvements or how quickly results will appear. Stronger foundations can be meaningful progress in their own right, even before changes become visible in school or exam results.
At Kip McGrath Darlington, a free assessment helps explore current strengths and gaps, and learning is personalised to the child’s needs. Our approach includes direct teacher feedback and achievable steps. Families considering maths and English tuition in Darlington can use the same practical questions to decide whether the support fits their child.
If you are concerned about your child’s maths or English, book a free initial assessment. It is a chance to understand their starting point and discuss a sensible next step, without pressure to continue.

